你有嘗試改變你的朋友嗎? // 夏日落幕最後一個weekend 船P 超防水眼線方法

上一篇文提過，最近開始睇返《牧羊少年奇幻之旅》《The Alchemist》，
決定黎緊每個post既開頭，都會share 一下個感受。

又有一條open-ended question la: 你有嘗試改變你的朋友嗎?

When someone sees the same people every day,
as had happened with him at the seminary,
they wind up becoming a part of that person's life.
And then they want the person to change.If someone isn't what others want them to be,
the others become angry.
Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their
lives, but none about his or her own.

大致上，係講個牧羊男孩覺得旅行所認識既朋友，會比較冇負擔，
因為每一個人既生活都好似，係人生中都總係會好多朋友，
如果你同同一班朋友生活係一齊，佢地會對你有期望，
會希望你改變，唔好理係咪變得同佢地一樣，
但係佢地會希望你根據佢地既睇法黎改變，不然就會嬲。
整段最精警既係，最尾個句，
好多人對他人如何過佢地既生活都有好清晰睇法，但係對自己本身就唔清晰。
最後問多一題，你有因為你朋友一句說話而去改變自己嗎?

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夏日落幕 9月我得返2個船P就係岩岩過左去個個weekend，連二。